5 Signs You're With the Right Person (ep 396) with Amy Sheppard
Hey there, Lachlan Stuart here. If you're reading this, you're probably curious about relationships, love, and everything in between.
Well, you're in luck. I've been with my partner, Amy Sheppard, for nine years, and boy, have we learned a thing or two along the way. We're not perfect, far from it, but we've learned to communicate, understand, and grow together. Here's a bit of what we've picked up on our journey.
First things first, communication. It's not just about talking, but expressing your feelings, needs, and concerns in a way that your partner can understand. Amy and I have had our fair share of disagreements, but we've learned to express our feelings before they escalate. We don't have those screaming fights you see in movies. Instead, we talk, we listen, and most importantly, we understand.
Amy and I come from different backgrounds, have different interests, but at the end of the day, our values align. We believe in balance, in sharing tasks, and in working together to create the life we want. We don't expect one person to do everything. Instead, we share responsibilities, and that's made all the difference.
Respect is often overlooked, but it's been a cornerstone of our relationship. We acknowledge each other's individuality, appreciate our differences, and allow each other to be ourselves. We've learned to respect each other's space, time, and choices. It's not always easy, but it's always worth it.
Respect is often overlooked, but it's been a cornerstone of our relationship.
Through ups and downs, highs and lows, Amy and I have always supported each other. We've been each other's cheerleaders, sounding boards, and sometimes, shoulders to cry on. We've learned that supporting each other doesn't mean solving each other's problems, but being there, listening, and offering a helping hand when needed.
Amidst the chaos of life, Amy and I always find time for fun. We break from routine, try new things, and most importantly, laugh. A lot. We believe that having fun together strengthens our bond and keeps our relationship fresh and exciting.
Nine years in, and we're still learning, growing, and loving. We've had our fair share of challenges, but we've also had an abundance of joy, love, and laughter. We're not perfect, and we don't aim to be. We're just two people, navigating love, one day at a time.
Remember, every relationship is unique, and what works for us might not work for you. But if you're willing to communicate, respect, support, and have fun with your partner, you're on the right track. Here's to love, in all its forms.
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TRANSCRIPTION
Amy Sheppard, a singer-songwriter, and Lachlan Stuart, a Men's Performance Coach coach, share their insights on how to know if you're with the right person. Recognizing these signs can help ensure you're in a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Let's explore these signs. Sign #1: You Communicate Effectively Communication is the backbone of any relationship. It's not just about talking, but expressing your feelings, needs, and concerns in a way that your partner can understand. Amy and Lachlan emphasize the importance of expressing feelings before they escalate and having calm discussions instead of heated arguments. Sign #2: You Share Similar Values Sharing similar values provides a strong foundation for a relationship. This could be about life goals, family, or how to handle finances. Amy and Lachlan discuss the importance of balance in a relationship, sharing tasks, and working together to create a life they want. Sign #3: You Respect Each Other Respect in a relationship means acknowledging each other's individuality, appreciating differences, and allowing each other to be themselves. Amy and Lachlan highlight the importance of mutual respect in their relationship, which helps them naturally share responsibilities. Sign #4: You Support Each Other Supporting each other through ups and downs is a sign of a strong relationship. It's about being there for each other during tough times and celebrating each other's successes. Amy and Lachlan discuss how they support each other's ambitions, which creates a motivating and positive environment in their relationship. Sign #5: You Have Fun Together Having fun together helps keep the relationship fresh and exciting. It could be shared hobbies, adventures, or simply enjoying each other's company. Amy and Lachlan emphasize the importance of making time for fun activities, which helps them break from routine and strengthen their bond. Recognising these signs can help you understand if you're with the right person. Reflect on your own relationship and see if these signs resonate with you. A big thank you to Amy Sheppard and Lachlan Stuart for their expert advice and insights.